April.. Our Last Month in India
We apologize for the lateness of this blog… It was written the last week of April while we were still in India but I guess its better late than never!
Can April of 2015 really already be over? We arrived in Delhi on April 30, 2014 at about 11:00pm at night and as I write a full year has passed. Kaysi and I are both shocked in how fast time has flown by over the last year.
Our year here in India has been a wonderful experience for us. It has been great over the last year to have been afforded the opportunity to get to spend vast amounts of time with each other! We feel the experience here has strengthened our marriage and we have both learned so much about each other through the process. We feel truly blessed to have had this opportunity! I could go on much longer about how our year here has impacted us but I feel that those questions can be me thoroughly answered in person! So, with that said hopefully we will get to meet up with all of our friends in the U.S.A. to tell you about our experience and if you are here in India please feel free to ask us!
So now, on to the month of April!
At the end of March we were able to get our visas extended through the middle part of May which was great! Neither Kaysi or I had any desire to be deported from India! One thing we had not realized though about the renewal of our visas was that we needed to take info to our cell phone company to show that our visas have been extended. Soo… unfortunately… as we awoke on April 1st (the day our original visas expired) our cell phones were not working. I thought that maybe it was just a strange coincidence but it was not. They were on top of things and since to their knowledge our visa had expired our phones were shut off! Even more unfortunate we had to go back through the whole process of reapplying for cell phones which took almost four days to complete. Thankfully we were giving a temp number from Kaysi’s work so that we weren't completely unreachable. You don’t realize just how much you rely on those luxuries of life until you don't have them any longer. We definitely were grateful to have that all figured out!
The first weekend in April was Easter weekend so Kaysi got Good Friday off! We were thankful for the extra rest we were able to get over that weekend! On Friday we decided to go and catch a movie at our favorite movie theatre here and were treated to a great and exciting movie Fast and Furious 7 and even a little extra entertainment. The extra entertainment started a little over half way through the movie when we here someone towards the back of the theatre begin yelling at someone else. Apparently there was a disagreement of some sort. Some movie theatre staff came and seem to calm things down. The excitement was not quite over though! As the movie was getting close to the end and doing a tribute to Paul Walker the guys who had previously been arguing made their way out of the theatre but not before starting a fist fight down in the very front of the movie which progressed to the lobby of the theatre. It was quite entertaining!
On Easter Sunday we went to a Sunrise service at Lodi Gardens that the church hosted and then breakfast at a restaurant after! It was an amazing time! After breakfast we headed to the regular church service and then returned home for the day and caught up on sleep!
During our time in Mumbai Kaysi began treating a patient who has continued seeing her even after our return to Delhi. He comes in for a few days out of the week for treatment then heads back. He has a couple of favorite restaurants at the hotel he stays at here in Delhi and invited us to dinner with him a couple of times! Once at a place called Dum Pukht and another called Bukhara. He said its the best Indian food and we both have to agree it is quite amazing food! We first went to Dum Pukht where the food is cooked slowly to capture all of the spices and flavors of the dishes! It truly was amazing! There were lamb kabobs that literally melted in your mouth! Kaysi and I were also introduced to their Dal Bukhara which is absolutely amazing!! The second time he invited us to dinner we we to Bukhara, where the Dal Bukhara was made famous and again we were blown away by the quality and taste of the food! Kaysi had a chicken dish that was wrapped in a fluffy egg and I had some melt in your mouth lamb! I ate so much I was absolutely miserable when we reached home… but it was worth it!
We were able to get one last mini trip in during April. We went up to Darjeeling, which is one of the best Hill Stations in India! Kaysi and I absolutely loved our time there! We booked the trip through a travel agent so they had planned everything for us which was awesome. We flew from Delhi to Bagdogra and then it was about a three hour drive up into the foot hills of the Himalayas (pronounced Hih-Mal-Yas not my Texas accent of Him-Ma-Lay-Yahs). A guide and a driver met us at the airport and were there to guide us around the whole weekend. Our guide's name was VJ and the driver Binot.
The first day we arrived to our hotel and just relaxed for the remainder of the evening. Saturday morning we rode a Toy Train Steam Engine (its not actually a toy just a smaller train on a narrow gauge rail) from Darjeeling to the town of Ghoom.
It was close to a two hour ride with a quick stop off at a Memorial for solders of fallen wars. It was quite foggy that morning so with the fog and the steam engine you weren't able to see a whole lot but the experience was great! After the train ride we went and toured a Buddhist temple in Ghoom. It is always so interesting hearing about the different traditions and practices of other religions.
After that it was off to a Tea Estate in Darjeeling. The hills lined with tea bushes are absolutely beautiful and the smell amazing as well. At the tea estate we were able to take a quick tour through the factory where the tea is processed and then had a tea tasting afterwards. I really enjoyed that.
Before we went back into the town we made a quick stop for some pictures as the ladies who were picking the tea were just finishing up for the day. We headed back to our hotel, The Mayfair, and had lunch. We were planning on going out for a walk that afternoon but the weather was uncooperative so we took the opportunity to just rest and relax and got to bed early because Sunday was going to be an early morning!
Sunday we woke up about 3:30am and left our hotel by 4am so that we could get to Tiger Hill to watch the sunrise! Tiger Hill is the tallest point in Darjeeling and from it, if the sky is clear, you get an awesome panorama of the Himalayas! Our guide told us that we were the first group he had taken in the last few months that actually had a clear morning. The closest big mountain is Kangchenjunga which is 8,586 meters high! (Thats 28,169 ft and is the 3rd tallest peak in the world!!). We were also able to see the very tip of Mt Everest in the distance, but it was a good distance away! We felt so very blessed to be able to have a clear day to see the beauty God created! We have pictures of the sunrise and mountains that morning… but I have to be honest.. they do them no justice!
After the sunrise we went back to our hotel warmed up a bit (I was actually cold in India! That was a first!) as the weather was fairly cool. We had breakfast and then we set off to go to the Zoo and the Himalayan Mountaineering Institute! The zoo was great! Got to see all sorts of different animals! The leopards were awesome! Got to see a couple common leopards, a snow leopard, and even a black leopard! And of course who can not marvel at the royal Bengal Tiger!!! The Himalayan Mountaineering Institute is within the grounds of the zoo and it was quite interesting as well! Gave you great information into the Himalayan Mountain Range as well as had an entire floor dedicated to Mt Everest.
After lunch we took a walk to Buddhist Monastery that was begun in 1913 in protest to the beginning of the first World War. They have begun restoration of the grounds because of the 100 year anniversary and were still in the process. The walk there was a good distance and mostly uphill but it was fun! It was great to be able to be out in nature and see the beautiful scenery! It was an amazing trip and we feel so blessed at having the opportunity to travel to many different places over the last year!
I can’t write this blog without a heavy heart for the people of Nepal as well as those in Northern India, Tibet, and China who have been effected by the earth quake on April 25th. Kaysi and I were at an Eye Clinic where Kaysi was having a consultation for LASIK eye surgery. We had just sat down on a bench and they were beginning the process of dilating Kaysi’s eyes when we began to feel the tremors from the earth quake. I thought that we might just be sitting on a wobbly bench and Kaysi thought it was part of the effects of her eyes being dilated and balance being thrown off. We were evacuated from the building and after a few minutes were able to return inside. My heart breaks for the millions of people who have been effected by this tragedy. I would encourage you to pray for those effected, and if you have the means, find organizations that are doing great work in the effected areas.
The last two weeks here in New Delhi have been busy! Kaysi has been busy getting things squared away at work and I have been busy getting all of the other things related to our apartment and bills squared away. In the midst of that Kaysi did end up having LASIK Eye surgery this past weekend May 2nd. She was a trooper through the surgery and has recovered nicely! The Dr was pleased with her surgery and was also pleased with the follow up appointment on Monday!
We were also invited to one of Kaysi’s co-workers weddings this past Sunday night! Kaysi was excited that she was able to wear the sari that she had purchased once here in India! Her co-worker Katherine and her had a getting ready party here at our apartment to get the saris wrapped and on. It was a little bit longer of process than they anticipated but they got them wrapped and we were off to the wedding! Once we arrived we were greeted by family and then waited for the bride and groom to arrive to the ceremony. One of Kaysi’s other co-workers Sumeet showed up and she came to the rescue and got Kaysi and Katherine properly wrapped in their saris!

We were only able to see a little bit of the wedding ceremony but it was beautiful and we were able to greet the bride and groom and give them our best wishes!
Our time here in India has been a wonderful experience for us both! It has taught us so very much about ourselves and helped us to become closer to one another as a couple! Kaysi has been stretched as she has taken on new roles within work and feels this has been a good experience for her leading into her fellowship in Steamboat Springs for the next year! For me it has been a year of being able to step back a little and take a good long look and gain clarity as I move forward. I definitely don’t have everything figured out but I feel confident God is leading Kaysi and I in each step we take! We are so thankful for this opportunity to be here in India! It has broadened our horizons and given us so many great opportunities to meet new and amazing people!
There are a few people we would like to thank for everything over the last year. We would both like to thank Vardan for providing this opportunity to come to India, we are forever grateful for the hospitality and care you have shown us! For Kaysi’s co-workers we are grateful for the friendships and laughter we have formed with you all and look forward to staying in touch over the years! To all of those here in India who have made our stay comfortable and worked on our behalf we thank you from the bottom of our hearts! For the church families we found both here in Delhi at DICF and Eden Springs in Mumbai we thank you for welcoming us in as family and helping to make us feel welcome! To all the others we have met over the last year we thank you for adding a little excitement to our lives and challenging us to become who God has created us to be! Finally, to our families and friend back in the U.S. for being so supportive of us over the last year and praying for us during this time!